
seriously though, I am not a spammer
I am a real person. not a spammer not fake not someone looking to on their husband. I am NOT 420 friendly. I am a single mother, looking for friends, and not trying to make this into a hookup . If I wanted to hook up with a stranger I could go to a bar. This is just a person reaching out to find other people who might have like minded interests, and want actual friends who won't stab you in the back, aren't looking for your money, and just want companionship from someone who has a mind and opinions of their own. I prefer guy friends since females tend to get over zealous and think because they're insecure guys going to on them with a chick friend of theirs. let cheaters be cheaters, they can all have one another I don't have time for your childish behavior. I am trying to get back in shape and refind myself again. I don't need anyone is going to stand in the way of that. I just like company both at home and going out. People who are not childphobic but don't get me wrong I am NOT going to let strangers meet my , I just want friends who can eventually bleed into all aspects of my life. I'm a mother hen type person, I like to give advice and help people make good decisions with their lives since I've made so many bad ones I actually know what I'm talking about. I can be affectionate and fun but when I get stressed its hard for me to let those traits out, and being a bitch doesn't keep you many friends. So I'm trying to find relaxed people who can go with the flow not take it personally when I get frustrated with life and stick around long enough to make me laugh and see that anybody can be someone they're not when their life is not what they wanted it to be. So I'm sure I've just written a book, let's move on to the fun stuff. I enjoy tennis, Yoga, walking around aimlessly, car karaoke, a finding new fun places to eat ( fair warning I'm picky about what I eat I'm trying to be and live a long life to be here for my so no I don't want to go to IHOP or a burger place every time we would meet). I love good bubble tea, most ethnic foods, and anything that involves sticky rice and coconut ice cream. I really am not boring person who can just sit around for hours drinking hot tea and playing cards and talking about nothing and everything. I don't drink often and when I do I prefer wine. So I'm not looking for a bar / club buddy. Rate me, hate me, do whatever you like, but seeing as how I'm one of the few people on here not looking for a booty in the strictly platonic section don't be a dick and me. Please and thank you. By the way I feel it only fair to warn of a hands on kind of friend, but I'd like to get involved know what's going on, sit close to each other, share a blanket when we watch , joke around play punches in the arm, exchange shoulder massages, carpool places, act like a goober in public sometimes kinda girl. Most of my life consists of me being serious organized on the ball all the time. It's become more then A habit yeah, it's become my lifestyle. I'm trying to find friends who can help me remember what it was like to just have fun without all the worry. It's hard to break habits like that especially when you still need them to live in the real world, I'm not very good at this whole thing so like anybody I'm bound to screw up if you're looking for a perfect person to be a perfect friend to fit your perfect expectations I'm not it. But if you're just wanting a flawed human being who only slightly judges you and probably has a dancer and opinion for everything , lol well then I'm your girl. By the way if you've gotten this far, I do apologize for what will likely be a very , I'm doing this whole thing on my phone via speech so rather than go back and correct every instance of my phone getting what I say wrong I think I'll just leave it kinda messed up to prove that I am in fact capable of that which is sort of a big deal for me. Now off to go get a bubble tea let's see how many people message me. Haha that rhymed, I'm a poet and didn't know it.