The B in FWB
Id like to talk with you about Friends With Benefits
Or, in todays society, a girls best friend .
FWBs are starting to gather more social acceptability as more and more people remain single into their mid-to-late twenties. Also, given the nature of the workplace (it isnt 9-5 anymore), relationships are becoming more difficult to maintain for todays group of students and professionals.
As for myself, I am in my early 30s, have brown hair, brown eyes, college educated and I live and work in the city. Id love to be your friend with benefits if we mesh accordingly. You must understand that like you, I can be very busy professionally. I do have my own social life, friends and hobbies. Obviously Im privy to your own needs in these areas as well.
I work, I travel, I keep busy by catering to more than just sensual pleasure in the bedroom. In fact, I have come to accept the nature of your need, as well as mine. I know most professionals struggle with cultivating their sexual desires in a safe, sane manor after graduating. And sometimes college students need an outlet outside of silly, dunk and sometimes stupid hookups. After all, those are drama filled and guy driven anyhow Right ladies?
The toughest thing about cultivating a FWB relationship is gathering the strength to see it through in person. I like to meet for coffee and have a sensual conversation testing our chemistry and compatibility before seeing where things go. There are so many nerves and feelings involved with scheduled sexual passion that many do give it second and third thoughts. This opposed to being in the moment where hormones outweigh the decision making skills of many involved.
That first time is always difficult at the beginning, because unlike the in the moment passion, a sensual and longing must be created, if not already done so my nerves and anticipation. Yet, most have the ability to over think this process, which makes my job scheduling so much more difficult, as I must factor in a persons and interest as I decide whom Im going to play with.
But once the initial concern waivers, most are able to settle down and enjoy their surroundings. And most, knowing that we do provide something of value to them, want to meet up again, with no nerves, just wave after wave of excitement.
After all, when you find someone who is able to take time for you sexually, wouldnt you want to keep that person around. Thats what FWBs are all about.
And in todays go-go-go society, they are becoming more and more vital to women.
Summer Fling or One Time Thing
I'm a Mizzou grad student staying here for the summer and am wanting pass the time with someone. I'm hoping for something casual and NSA, but would settle for a one time thing. I'm attractive, smart, laid-back, white, very fit, clean-shaven, have bluish-green eyes and brown hair, and am easy to talk to. I have more of a dominant personality, but not in a cocky or arrogant way; rather I'm not afraid to speak the truth or take control. I'm hoping to meet someone 18-30, in decent shape, and is comfortable with herself. Smart is always a plus. Other than that, though, I'm not too picky, so if you think you might be interested, send me a quick and I'll be happy to reply. It's hard to get to know someone from a brief description, so feel free to ask me anything too.