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Does anyone really read these? I am looking for a long term discrete relationship. I am not one to hop in and out of the sack with different girls all of the time. I am terrible at picking up women at bars because I just don't have that whatever it is you need to do that. That is not to say that I have a problem when it comes to talking to women. I am great with the one liner funny sex dating in Wilmette stuff but only if I know you well. It's just hard for me to get the conversation started in a bar environment. Most of my relationships in the past have been with people that I have known for some time and the relationship developed out of that familiarity. I am a stable, intelligent, fun loving, easy going guy.. I have always done the right things in my life and now I want to break out of that and take a walk on the wild side for a change. Do something outside of my comfort zone. But, as I said in the beginning, I don't want this to be a one night stand. I want this to be ongoing. I am in a situation now that leaves me alone during the week from Sunday night until Thursday night. I would like to find someone to enjoy that time with. If you are in a situation where you feel you would like to meet someone to help make you feel alive again, or for whatever reason you may have, why don't you drop me a line and let's see what happens. Please be HWP and d/d free and , while not a deal breaker, it is preferred that you be a non-smoker. I am 6'1" tall and 195 lbs. fit, active, d/d free and a non-smoker, social drinker. Once you get to know me, you'll see that I am not a crazy, stalker type. I am probably the most drama free person you'll meet. Oh, I've had drama in my life. I just don't let it control my behavior and I don't talk about it constantly. I am waiting to hear from you!