Yes, he is a great guy who totally make sure everything works, money in the bank, doing for others and me just like you said. It's the reason I started to date him after being best friends with him for a year and a half. I knew there wasn't much sexual chemistry with him, but he was such a great person, I felt that as as we got intimate he would totally grow on me that way, because I've had that happen before. But it's not happening. I really wish it was, because I don't really mind all his nerdy little ways (I actually appreciate most of them), but the sex appeal is just not growing. And he really tries! But, I should mention that he drinks anywhere from 6-10 beers a night and every night when I talk to him on the phone, I can tell he's been drinking, and that's just a turn off. Oh, and he smokes pot at least once an hour. I don't feel like there's enough chemistry to ask him to stop drinking (and God-forbid smoking) because what if I still am not sexually attracted to him after he's been sober for awhile? If that's what he really likes to do, I don't want to make him stop. Because I know he'd give it his best try if I asked him. But that's kind of making a big committment on MY part, it feels like. So, I don't know, there's just so things that don't feel right. Plus, he's a type A and I'm a hard core type B. He doesn't watch. and that's the only thing I look forward to when I want to really relax. How can I spend the rest of my life with someone who doesn't watch I think that might be worse than a Republican and a Democrat trying to make it work. But thanks for your perceptions. I appreciate them. If you have any more comments I'd to hear them.
First things first, I am VERY real and so is the forthcoming requestI know that is an issue in the land of the List of Craig.
So, as an attractive, kick-ass, relatively sane, Caramel BBW, it is with much skepticism and also a unyielding spirit that "anything happen", I post on Craigslist!
Now, I want a awesome Valentines Day-ish (date flexiblelol) filled with fun, laughter, BALLOONS, chemistry,cool ass conversation, flowers and most importantly authentic connection! Now, I know the forum where I am seeking said adventure and I know Im kinda on time crunch, but hey, see my attitude above - Everythings Possible!.
What You Would Be Getting Into:
Me: 32, African-American, Native American, Causacian Female, drug and alcohol free, jazzy, down to earth, cool, spirited, truth-based, 5'8 a vessel of Wide-Bodied Lusciousness (Size 26), a member of the 2%, the proverbially White Lion a World of Yellow Tigers, single, less, attracted to out of the box thinkers, who are equally down to earth, sane, love conversation, and the exchange of ideas.I love intellect but I love laughter and relatability as well.I am attracted to men who have duality- so the masculine AND the feminine thing down,,,meaning you think, you do, AND you feel,.things I find sexy: a vocab, some goals, and a perspective to share!.
You: For this Adventure, you have to be non-negotiably SINGLE ( no s mother in the bushes, no wife, no girl, no crazy stalkery ex,.oh, if you had sex last week , YOU AINT FREE.lol), got goals, got laughter, got charm, got a GENUINE ATTRACTION for the Heavy Hotties! (ya'll like my creative ways to say fat, huh?- lol), be interesting, able to converse, you think, do, and feel etc.oh, attraction is key, ya'll.I am all for looking on the inside but I gotta enjoy looking at ya, I like taller dudes, Im 5'8 and i kinda prefer please have ya own stuff- the tangibles in life.so yeah.oh and please enjoy giving and making a woman smile - because I want some balloons and some flowers for Valentine's Day,,,damn it!.lol
I thoroughly enjoy 'brothers' and my Latino friends between the ages of 23-35, HOWEVER, the Universe has taught me that my gifts come in the most unusual packages, so if you dont fit that box, and you like what u are readin' - Give it Go!
All of that aside, everybody has a glorious V-day and beyond,
R!
NOW IMPORTANT INFO HERE
*****THIS POSTING IS, IN NO WAY, SEXUALLY BASED.SO DONT HURT YA OWN FEELINGS, APPROACHING ME IN SUCH A MANNERlol - THIS IS FOR ME TO EXPERIENCE AN AWESOME V-DAY AND PERHAPS TO TAKE PLEASURE IN THE COMPANY OF ANOTHER SOUL WILLING TO ASSIST ME IN CREATING THAT TYPE OF EXPERIENCE*****
****AS WELL, ALL ONE LINERS, PRE-CONSTRUCTED GENERIC "U SEND THIS TO ALL FEMALES ON CL, JUST TO SEE WHO WILL BITE" TYPE OF RESPONSES, AND ALL 1ST EMAIL WITHOUT PICTURES, YES, YOU FIRST AND I WILL RETURN IN KINDCMON, YALL THIS IS THE AGE OF CAMERAPHONE, SO YOU SHOULD BE ABLE TO COMPLY!.LOL****