I think I may be a cheater...
To be clear, I haven't cheated yet but the thought of accepting something on the side has crossed my mind, especially when I see it being offered freely in every day life. No, I'm not talking about prostitutes and such - I'm talking about normal every day people like friends, co-workers, etc. in a 'friends with benefits' kind of way. However, the thought of engaging like that with someone in my circle is much too dangerous. So, perhaps you too have been thinking about cheating. Maybe you have come to realize, like I have, that giving your life willingly to someone and not getting the same appreciation and comfort takes its toll on a person. I've actually had some good opportunities but always denied them. I thought I was better than that to run around.
I've come to realize I've done the best I could under my circumstances, and I am thinking straight by writing this ad on CL. You see, I've been to counseling and talked about the motives and my desires, but nothing changes when the other person refuses to tango. That is the bottom line. So here I am today, feeling a combination of nervousness, excitement, exuberance, hope and so on. What will my foray into the world that is frowned by many uncover?
To be clear, I'm not looking to change mine or anyone else's circumstances at home. I can promise discretion, fun, safety and, if our chemistry reacts well, a regular arrangement where we can fulfill our sexual wants and needs without feeling guilt or regret. I workout every day and am very fit, non-smoker, and drink socially, am educated and respectful, laid back and I have less of a serious tone than the one that's implied in this ad. I'm a giver as well as a taker and feel that as a non-judgmental person I would enjoy a woman of any marital status, age/size as attitude and disposition are very sexy in my book.
I'd love to read your response if any of this interests you. Thanks for reading.