When I'm dealing with a break-up, I force myself to do the things that usually make me happy even if I don't derive any real from it. Keep doing that and before you know it, you'll start feeling like yourself again. For me, it's getting into a daily nature-walk routine with friends, inviting friends over for a pot luck, taking my friends' out to do crazy-fun kid things, going to galleries, writing a and getting away for the weekend or longer. The latter is helpful because it allows me to look at my life from a different perspective. And I clean and purge every closet and drawer and surface in sight. Another thing is to rely on and surrender the weight and pain to your "guardian angels". That actually helps. don't allow yourself to hibernate and ruminate alone. Also, if you can't stop crying, take control of it by allowing yourself times to cry. "It's 10:30am now. At 11, I'll go into the ladies room and cry for 5 minutes." It helps to become aware that you're in control of your thoughts and, therby, your feelings. Your heartache is a storm that's passing through and you're in control of how you deal with it. This Cognitive Therapy article and worksheet really help to get a handle on things:. And you should journal like crazy. You'll not only be okay; you'll learn from it and be a better, healthier person once you get to the other side. in there.
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Hey,
I am glad you decided to read this, so if you find any of these related to you hit me up let's chat see where it takes us.
Sarcasm. (is a huge plus)
Zombies. (there is a world fascination here because it never happens)
Tattoos. (I have plenty, do you)
Laid Back. (uptight mean people basiy just suck)
Out going. (being shy at first is okay, but at the same time the more non-shy a person can be the better)
jeans and a t shirt. (sometimes she can look just as good in this as she can all dolled up)
Loves the out doors. (I am a home body by nature, but i love the outside world, the lakes the mountains, the beach you name it)
Likes to be spontaneous. Likes to take risks.( some would argue everything you do is taking a risk, but we all know this is more relationship wise and things of that nature)
Loves watching movies. ( i have a pretty decent movie collection and one thing i love to do is lay around and watch movies with someone)
Enjoys road trips. (hey if i have the time and you do as well, let's just jump in the car and drive somewhere)
Likes BBQ. (everyone should like this)
Likes to learn new things. (knowledge is power, the more you know the better equipped you are at many different situations)
Romantic. (this one varies not everyone is, and the ones who are view not all the same)
Can Google anything. (if you have to Google this line we have a problem)
Likes the beach. (one place i could live the rest of my life and no worries)
Live Shows. (Music is good for the soul, not everyone has the same taste so i cant say mine is better than yours but we should be able to enjoy it together)
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