It didnt go well. The second visit together was all about a cosueling contract and both her and I couldnt answer how we'd commit to therapy. Our therapist wanted us to give a number of sessions. I felt I was in a sales pitch. After an hour+ of that we finally started to talk about parenting time over the holidays. I got upset and left. Bad decision, but thats what I did. Afterwards she was to continue therapy but never followed through, making excuses and canceling. I know this because I spoke with the therapist since then, in an attempt to try therapy again. Im unsure how to even let her know I would like to her get that kind of help, with me there or not. As far as her seeing divorce as a way out, that is not the case, I've brought it up in an attempt to get her to "shit or get off the pot" and make a decision, and her reply is always the same, "I don't know what i want , but I do know that I don't want a divorce."
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No matter what happens, at the end of the day Ill make you smile, laugh, and wonder, "How come Ive never met a woman like this before??!!"
I am so to get hurt again. :( I just want to be happy and settle down. Am I asking too much?
To be honest, I really have no idea what I am doing on this site or what I hope to find, maybe my true love, maybe more Im not sure, I just know that I would like a partner or a friend that I can talk to and get to know and who knows what will happen. I was on the softball, basketball in high school. I love sports, I would play sports all day if given the choice, I also really love nature, I love the way the moon is reflected over the ocean, the sound of the waves, the stars. I love the sunset on a beach, the snow covered hills of mountains, cherry blossoms, I really value nature and sometimes I can just sit on a beach and itll completely take my breath away.
Now I must admit again, I appreciate my woman, I want to make her feel loved and respected, like the luckiest woman on Earth. Whats inside is forever and thats how I live by. Im a romantic, I like to do the little things, like giving her a massage after a long day of work, good morning or good night texts, falling asleep on the phone, walking and holding hands, I am a really romantic woman But from what I have been told over and over again while I was being rejected by woman I have come to fallen for, I am too nice, I am more of a friend , I have been told so much and have wanted to change but I stand firm to my belief that there are woman out there who appreciates the qualities I have. I guess Im searching for that kind of woman. I have the biggest heart out of any woman you can find, and I have the actions to back it up. I dont really know what Im searching for on here but I do hope some of you woman who read this are interested and would take a chance with me. Whether its friends and you want to talk as friend" if you get what I mean, or you want to see if were compatible or if we click, or just a simple hang out Whatever it is, I hope you take a chance with me, Im really up for anything, I want to live life with a woman in my arms, I want to please her, and I hope that woman may be you.
If you made it this far, thank you for reading and I hope that youll take the chance to get to know me some more, shoot me an message because everything I said is the truth, but its up to you to take a chance to see if its real or not, I cant convince you anymore than this ad that Im a real woman and Im out there. So what are you waiting for, click the reply button and shoot me a message and lets get to know each other, I will make sure you dont regret it. Please dont send me any spam or hate mail or insulting me for who I am or anything, I have a right to live just like any of you. I cant wait for your reply, thank you for your time in reading this message, Im sorry it was so long, I hope youre interested. Thank you and have a pleasant day/evening (whenever you are reading this) :)